Another school of thought is a WIS CK Healer in PvP. From what I hear, they're damn hard to take down. cheapest 9Dragons gold. But, the best CK Healer I have heard of, name of Kyrain, but have not had the pleasure of meeting before, did a restat at FC. Don't be adding WIS points until you've reached a point where you think "Ahhh forget grinding fast for now, I'm a good level, I want to get into some PvP. 9Dragons item. Here, you'll want to buy a restat maybe, and try adding Wis. I dunno what to do for this CK Healer build, you'll have to find more out yourself (search button =P)
Essence - High VE is a nice thing to have, but you should NOT compromise your damage and combat ability for it. buy 9Dragons gold. That's why its just an extra convenience to have high VE. I have about 12 Ess, and I've felt comfortable with that amount ever since I made it that way at RL12.
Constitution - Penalty Stat, bad idea to ineffeciently use points by sticking them here. 9Dragons gold. You can use relics and HP Clothing to give yourself more HP too. Also, your heals(coupled with high defense from high Strength ahem ahem) should keep you with sufficent HP. Mines at 15, relic usage
Essence - High VE is a nice thing to have, but you should NOT compromise your damage and combat ability for it. buy 9Dragons gold. That's why its just an extra convenience to have high VE. I have about 12 Ess, and I've felt comfortable with that amount ever since I made it that way at RL12.
Constitution - Penalty Stat, bad idea to ineffeciently use points by sticking them here. 9Dragons gold. You can use relics and HP Clothing to give yourself more HP too. Also, your heals(coupled with high defense from high Strength ahem ahem) should keep you with sufficent HP. Mines at 15, relic usage